The Mentality of Childhood
“Accept the truth, even if it is not what you expected or wanted” is the kind of advice one might give a child.
the puzzle of voluntary self-sabotage has a solution!
An invitation to know yourself by researching the sequence of cause-and-effect from both the outside and the inside
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“Accept the truth, even if it is not what you expected or wanted” is the kind of advice one might give a child.
Is light a particle or a wave? Is the electron here or not here? Am I the most important thing in the universe or am I merely dust and ashes? …
In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. But, in practice, there is
-Jan van de Snepscheut
[twg_gpo_button] Despite their repeated relapses most people never develop sufficient respect for the challenge they face. Instead they believe their previous failures reflect their own defectiveness. If they appreciated what …
[twg_gpo_button] The disease model and 12-Step programs assume that the individual is powerless to control incentive use, and so do not permit moderation as a treatment goal. The bio-psycho-social model …
The PIG (the Problem of Immediate Gratification) is a defining feature of incentive use disorders. Individuals suffering the negative consequences of their excessive appetites want immediate gratification of the desire …
Habits of thinking need not be forever. One of the most significant findings in psychology in the last twenty years is that individuals can choose the way they think.
Do not become attached to the things you like;
do not maintain aversion to the things you dislike.
Sorrow, fear, and bondage come from one’s likes and dislikes.
–Buddha
The PIG says, “The closer you are to the incentive the stronger is its influence.”
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